right so this is happening

So yesterday a picture graced my timeline on a social networking site and I was surprised borderline shocked to see the details of the said picture.

Apparently two friends of ours went off on a vacation and didn’t tell anybody about it.

Anyway, that’s not the point here. The point here is that they went off without telling us. And none of them speak a lick of Thai. Must be having fun communicating with the locals.

So now that we have identified the point, the next question should be whether or not those who were left out of the loop are feeling butthurt.

Well, I can’t say that I don’t feel butthurt at all, but I can’t say I am butthurting greatly. It is disappointing that they went off without telling us. But then again, who are we that they have to tell us where they’re going. Right?

Right. I know it’s totally none of our business but still, as a courtesy, it doesn’t hurt to just let us know, na mean? This isn’t the first time though. There was once I remembered they were planning to go to Australia, the few of them and they didn’t tell at all until somehow I heard it from somebody and they were like yea, we’re planning a trip there. And that was that. No invitations or whatever. They must’ve thought that I wouldn’t join anyway so why waste the effort. I felt a bit bad after that. Even my mom was like “why they no invite you” or something along those lines. I had to lie and say something like “oh they know I’m having exams that time so they didn’t”.

Well I’m done making excuses for people who obviously don’t deserve my covering up for them. 

I’ve known for years that they’re not worth my time but I gave them the benefit of the doubt every time something like this happens. But I know, deep down, they are not bad people. They just have a problem with prioritizing other people’s feelings which is perfectly understandable if you ask me. A lot of people are ego-tisticle, big-headed, garbage dirtballs. (If you know where I got those descriptions from, here’s an A+ for you XD)

Throughout the years I’ve made, dropped and kept friends. The cycle continues on and on to be honest. There is no stopping. I probably have a scale on which I rank you in my “friends” list. It goes something like this:

(From lowest rank to the highest)

·         Hi/Bye friends

·         Regular friends

·         Frolleagues

·         Good friends/buddies for life

·         Chingoo

·         Dear

So yea, that’s what my current rank would look like. It’s a super silly rank 

but hey, everybody has their own ranking. Just that I put it up there for all to see. Hate me if you want. I’m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake. I shake it off!

to the rest of you:

love you guys!

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